Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Feels a little like home




Oh London, how do I love thee. There is so much energy in this city and I am surrounded by theater which really makes my heart happy. I think a large part of my excitement is the ability to not only have conversations with people in a common language but to also make funny comments (or at least I think they are funny).  I will say that London is not as British as I expected, maybe it's to much television or something but I really thought I would see more Fascinators and Bowlers, have high tea and watch a cricket match or two. I am still waiting to see spotted dick on a menu or in the store, there is such a thing and not just an item sold at World Market, right?

For the serious cider drinker

Where Big Ben lives

Scotch Egg

Changing of the guard

We were so happy to have some friends join us during our first week here, we did the Hop on Hop off bus which really gives you the chance to see the sites and decide on what tourist stops you want to revisit and did the Beatles/Rock and Roll walking tour. We stopped in a local pub where the Beatles used to meet with Brian Epstein and had a pint and some chips, we were the only women but it was very cool. We have rented a flat (English term for apartment) in the Herne Hill area of London, talk about diverse and eclectic, I love all the Caribbean markets, food, smells and people. We are only about 30 minutes outside of central London so we take the red double decker bus in to town which Tatum loves and it gives us an opportunity soak up the sites. I have made friends with the checkers at the local grocery store after sending them into a tail spin when I asked for coffee creamer (liquid). Multiple people were searching the store until we realized it was single cream (located in the yogurt section and in a yogurt looking container)...

Tower Bridge

Selfie on the Hop on Hop off bus

The London Eye

Our flat

Splash - neighborhood festival

We are 3 months into our travels and I wont lie it hasn't always been fun. Traveling is hard, we are all sick of our clothes and ready to burn them. I miss my family and my friends, I miss the summer events back home and yes I know I am living the dream and people would trade places with me in a second..it's still hard. I am also spending more and more time thinking about what is next, remember I left my job, health insurance and retirement plan, rented out our condo, sold our belongings and stored the rest...so in 6 months when we return I need a plan. I will be working with a life coach while on this adventure and looking forward to exploring the next part of my life.

One of many things I will take away from this is the need for human connections and how I have been doing it and how I want to do it going forward. Life is not how much you cram into it but how much of it you experience. When was the last time we sat face to face with someone we cared about without an electronic devise in our hands or a table seperating us and just enjoyed each other? The parks in Copenhagen were filled with people of all ages, kicking a ball around or sitting on the grass and enjoying a conversation. There was no concert, no festival or sporting event just time spent with each other. I can not wait to get home and get togther with my friends in the park!

I will be in a British commerical in September. I was asked to film a spot with the British Red Cross (ha ha almost typed American Red Cross) for National First Aid Day. They asked me questions about first aid to see how much I knew as they are promoting their new first aid app. So stay tuned as I may just post the link to the ad.

Buckingham Palace

The City

Fortnum and Mason

China town

Fun in London

Filming 
Tatum's chum Tara

Tatum getting down in the park

The new hair cut

Cheers!


4 comments:

  1. Being a little homesick is okay. We miss you too, but know you are having the experience of a lifetime. I was at Island Cafe yesterday and passed along your message. They are all keeping tabs on you all and are excited to hear of your adventures, as we all are. Keep going, growing and enjoying your time.

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  2. So glad you posted on your blog. I always look forward to your posts on FB or your blog. And ....... I'm turning into a broken record because I say this every time. ha ha
    Barb

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  3. I love reading your blog and seeing your photos! Thanks for taking the time to share with us ! :) bird

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  4. You should be so proud of the fact that you have the strength to say "okay, this isn't what I want right now so I'm going to rebuild myself brick. by. brick." So hard to do. I can empathize with the travel eventually losing its sheen. It's still balanced by and tempered with the idea that you will go back to something...and you're not sure what that is. Keep searching, my friend--the right thing will come to you! And if it doesn't, fake it till it feels right! :)

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